dialogue on money/lack

conversation from ThinkwithyourHeart.com 

dancing unity (savannah) says:

October 11, 2013 at 7:44 pm

another stab at my $ question. It seems to me financial woes seems to be a common symptom of us wayshowers. I know for this to shift there is nothing TO DO. I know it depends on my BEING, my vibe. I know it is an individual process. Yet given how many of us seem to be affected despite a high level of awareness, I am wondering if the crystal ball has any info on this; my sense is that the shifting energies will make the transition into being in a vibe of abundance a little easier to discover just as the vibe of the equinox has made it sooo much easier for me to function and to be at peace/calm. Any sense this is in the cards? Seems like a little dough would make things easier for us to get our gifts into the world but maybe I am trying to put the cart before the horse.

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• Lauren says:

  October 12, 2013 at 10:55 am

  I agree…financial challenges def are a “wayshower/lightworker” theme.
  5D creation is holographic in nature so it REQUIRES that you put the cart before the horse!
• You have to play a little make-believe to get the momentum going…create your reality, THEN step into it. If you do it the other way around…wait for the supports to show before you make your move…you will continue to create more “waiting for your supports to show”.

  Remember, you have to get out in front of the energy here…you create the circumstances in your life, you don’t create your life FROM your circumstances.

  This switch in dynamic is EVERYthing, literally. You have to get accustomed to knowing and therefore trusting that the universe will supply.

  It’s all light-hearted imagination, play & pretend…the minute you take it too seriously (read: attachment) you plop back down to the “real world”…which is just another outdated version of make-believe anyway

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  • dancing unity says:

    October 12, 2013 at 11:16 am

    I know my purpose and now trust my value. My challenge is to trust how to get it into the world. I am attached to my parenting class. for my other class had 2 sign ups, one showed. PArenting class- no sign ups yet. I get attached to outcome because I desire it so much and because of $. my unexpected major expenses  yesterday adds fuel to the fire. How to play and lighten up will now be my intent. I sooo feel the heaviness of my lack of trust in my ability to get it into the world. Thanks so much for this overview, very helpful. Hard to whole this since we are trained to DO and I so get the doing with attachment just keeps me stuck in the mud.   

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    • Lauren says:

      October 12, 2013 at 11:30 am

      yes, DOing is the tricky part when coming from truth, but it is a 3D requirement and one that will enable us to truly lead by example.

      We have to BE AND DO…in that order.

      When action at the 3D level comes from inspiration at the 5D level, you are golden.

      Anything that we DO out of fear (need) in this space will flop…anything we DO out of LOVE (desire) in this space will soar.

      Create from “having what you want” instead of “getting what you need” and the ideas, concepts, information, inspiration on “the how” will open up and flood you…in some cases till you drown 

      you already have your whole plan completed within you…you just have to open up and let it out…into the world.

      

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      • dancing unity says:

        October 12, 2013 at 11:58 am

        yes, i could feel my strategic mind try to “do” lightness and non attachment. it is so tricky as i “need” some money. My doing is coming from a mixture of need and passion/love so of course i recognize that screws up my results. I feel myself trying so hard to do non attachment. What is so clear for me lately is that I am not the maker and doer in this, if that makes sense. no way can my ego figure this out. Pre equinox the heaviness of my eons experiencing the heaviness of being human arose to be wholed. I didn’t plan or do it, it arose as it was necessary for my wholing. Trust for me is key now. I can’t make this happen, plan my wholing. I must trust it to unfold as needed to return to my own essence.
        Am reading a great book by Rasha called “Oneness”. She says not to take constant setbacks and trauma/drama as a sign we are off course, rather that we are right on course, in the final stages. Seems mean to have your best worker bees in the wayshower business get repeatedly trounced but there you go. My mind has no clue how to lighten up, get unattached and out of my own way. My mind wants to take control. My heart knows better.
        
        

        Lauren says:

        October 12, 2013 at 12:33 pm

        “My mind has no clue how to lighten up, get unattached and out of my own way.”

        try playing with your mind!…give it what it wants, which is a way out.

        The trick is, the only way out is thru…so allow your mind to give you all the “worst-case scenarios”…then play along by accepting all those scenarios as if they were true, feel the complete discomfort in all the “what-if’s”…don’t leave any out!…then your mind can stop looping, and you can get back to the business of LOVE.

        Once there…in the vibration of truth…your (higher) mind will open and flood you with possibility, opportunity and plans for how to make those two things a REALity.

        ♡

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        • dancing unity says:

          October 12, 2013 at 1:00 pm

          good idea, will give it a try, for now returning to functioning is on the agenda as I am scheduled to go out of state (hoho,  love that, meant to another state, as in to Nevada, but surely need to go to another state!)

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new guides for parents?

the following is part of a question on Thinkwithyourheart.com and the answers to my thoughts about radically changing the way I view parenting. With my class coming up, I am being bombarded with awarenesses and they don't always feel welcome to say the least. scary... 8O
p.s. I am Dancing Unity here.

...How can this post be helpful to that person? Do you feel that the individual is like ‘spillage’ in the greater scheme of things? I ask with love and out of genuine concern.

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• Lauren says:

  October 8, 2013 at 10:56 am

  Hi, as I see it, there is really just one answer to all your questions…no one elses experience is any of my business or responsibility. Here’s how it works: I share my gifts & perspectives with others in accordance with my own truth/divine authority, others decide what’s in it for them. Or not. It’s all resonance. And it’s all perfect.

  With regard to the collective versus the individual, I only speak to the individual experience (of wayshowers) knowing full well that there is nothing “out there” in the collective…that it’s all a giant mirror trick.

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  • dancing unity says:

    October 8, 2013 at 1:22 pm

    I have been sitting with this reply for some time and it has caused big reverberations for me. I am preparing to facilitate my conscious parenting class in 2 1/2 weeks and I realize the biggest challenge for me is being told by the current paradigm that I am responsible for my child’s behavior, even legally. so when my strong willed daughter refused to cooperate with my commands from on high about health, homework, bedtime etc. I use to freak out and try to bend her. Because if she doesn’t do what she is “suppose” to do, I have to be a bad parent, right? or that’s the way the story has gone. To consider that I am not responsible for my child opens such a door of freedom and allows me to see her as Whole too, not as one that needs me to shape her into a functioning human being. Now I know lots of people will come unglued and say, of course you have to be responsible because blah blah blah. Yes, i must feed and care for an infant who can not do it him/her self. Yes, I must drive them, feed the etc. whatever they can truly not do for themselves. But be responsible for their choices creates an impossible situation as these children definitely have a mind of their own. I am still so unclear here and feel I am walking on such fluid ground. Feels very scary to even consider trying to present my increasingly radical ideas. I am sure of only one thing. I choose to bath myself and my child in love, seeing both of us as Whole and sovereign. Beyond that the rest is foggy. Lauren I am feeling your new inner authority and will use that awareness as a mirror to remind me of my own inner authority. Right now that one feels like a trembling child and I will love myself for that too. Sooner or later my inner authority will blossom fully. This answer really struck a cord. THANK YOU BELOVED. What a ride! I still feel the energy shaking my body on this one and will wait and see where it lands.

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    • Lauren says:

      October 8, 2013 at 2:20 pm

      you are beyond brave, but for good reason…because you are in tune with the course of (new) creation, and a pioneer of (new) human consciousness. My experience in this work over the last 7 years is that people, when presented with a new paradigm of thought that threatens the current reality system they “accept”, will sometimes thrash around in fits of ego-infused rage and resistance. But more times than not, those very same people will return 6 months later, after the seed has been planted and sprouted, to say thank you for releasing them from the bondage of their self-inflicted limitations.

      As with all things new, it takes detachment, balls and a solid sense of worth to share yourself in a way that will both inspire and/or antagonize others to grow. But there is little more rewarding.

      As my mom used to say in all her crass wisdom…”if you stir shit it stinks”. We stir shit just by the very presence of who we are/have become…might as well get comfortable here. Besides, if you bolster yourself by being prepared for any adverse reactions, then you probably won’t get any. (HINT: the more in alignment you are with your truth, the less resistance you will experience reflected back to you in others. but perfection is not possible here by any standards)

      every new level of creation begins with the momentary terror of the unknown…which, with the right timing, is very quickly replaced by the sheer bliss of divine self expression.

      I, for one, am thrilled for your new journey. Your information is SO needed in the world. ♡

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      • dancing unity says:

        October 8, 2013 at 2:50 pm

        ah Lauren, just what the doctor ordered. I will save this post as an antidote for my quaking nerves. I think this budding realization was made particularly challenging as I was just at a parent meeting last night to consider what qualities we parents would like in a new teacher for my daughter’s class (the old teacher is ill). When I heard what people were saying I felt like an alien and felt a little shaky, thinking, if they could read my mind and know what I am thinking, yes, what a shit storm it would stir up. and Yes, I spoke out in a clear strong voice which is new for me in these type of situations where people I know and can influence MY DAUGHTER’s life are listening. I am able to be brave for myself now but am now in tears as somehow i am projecting on to my daughter my desire that she not have to be subjected to the same feeling of being an alien I have experienced all my life. And yet the truth is, she already is experiencing this. I am crying again as I get that the best thing I can do is model the courage of my convictions and let the shit storm take it’s course. I have a strong sense I will be presenting this in a big way and feel the fear of going against the grain. Beloved, I tell you sure your courage, and at a much younger age than i am connecting to mine, of totally speaking your truth and let everybody take it as it comes is DEFINITELY inspiring me big time. I will keep you in my back pocket when I need to call up my courage until my own takes full root. It is good to hear the nay sayers often come back with a new perspective later. Although of course, what they think of me is none of my business, I am not yet fully over that one. Yes, the sheer bliss of divine self expression. Balls, for sure.   ☝♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

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        Lauren says:

        October 8, 2013 at 3:02 pm

        two things:

        1- you got this. the jitters are just ancient fears (of persecution) being released as you step into your power. They will subside. besides, this opportunity wouldn’t have availed itself if the world wasn’t ready for the information. remember, you are being called to service…you are the answer to a collective prayer for something more. That’s how it works in unity.

        2- if you have NO expectations of how others receive you, you simply invite them to experience you. big difference. It is not what you say as much as you who are that matters.

        You are LOVE expressing itself in form…nothing more, but definitely nothing less.

        ♡

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        • dancing unity says:

          October 8, 2013 at 3:46 pm

          thank you, yes it is clear that the level of fear this is producing can not be related to what is happening in this moment. I just spoke to another parent about the class and she immediately asked me questions about discipline and I don’t have answers to what people should do with specific problems. I am definitely aware I am caught in expectations of myself and attachment to outcome here. So I am doing what I always do now, turning up my self love. I see I have a fear of looking ridiculous? something like that. Yet since #2 answers all questions I will do my best to turn up the TRUST high and let it all settle, i am watching how much this is shaking me and clearly seeing I must get through this to own my full power which I also feel arising big time. Glad to hear the shaking will subside in time. because right now     what a ride!!

          
          
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conscious parenting- changing the paradigm

Beloveds,

I am fulfilling a long held dream through offering a new class in parenting. I feel shaky about it as I recognize how little i know about parenting. Despite heaps of credentials and experience, i feel very vulnerable in offering this class. I am so aware of how conditioning has shaped me, caused major blind spots in my parenting, caused me to react rather than respond, to create separation rather than intimacy. And yet I am climbing out on to a personal ledge, cliff as I feel this shift in how we parent is absolutely critical in co-creating a new world. If we can see our children as sovereign beings with all the resources necessary to follow the guidance of their own hearts to create the lives they were meant to live, rather than seeing our children as deficient and unwise beings that we need to shape and mold since we know best, I trust we will be going a long way toward creating a heart centered planet. I know few if any of you can join me in person yet I ask that you join me in consciousness to bless this undertaking, to bless the children and the parents as I begin, what for me, is a frightening yet exhilarating journey into one of my deepest yearnings.

CONSCIOUS PARENTING    Conscious Parenting     Savannah's passion is to support parents in their ability to create homes and families that are a celebration of love and to end the stress too often generated through a chain of pain. She brings her 20 years working variously as a therapist, school and family counselor and workshop leader to the task of resolving parental challenges with today's very unique children. Using twenty-first century healing techniques such as Cellular Memory Release, we can begin to return ourselves and our children to wholeness thus increasing intimacy and harmony and diminishing opposition and conflict. Six Fridays beginning October 25th at Dragonfly Studio in Penn Valley, 12:30-2:30 p.m. Cost: $22-33 sliding scale per class or $111 for the whole series. Try first class without commitment.   Savannah Hanson, M.A., MFT Cellular Memory Release Practitioner OneLoveKey@yahoo.com

come home

For the last days I have been using a simple technique whenever I feel off balance. I simply stop what I am doing (now at least, the first time i did it i was bent out of shape for over an hour with computer malfunctions  before i stopped freaking myself out), I take a deep breath, if necessary i go outside and I say”go home” to myself. it reminds me Who I am and that I can return to a more balanced place (at least for the last few days.) It is such a clear reminder. Today it morphed to me saying “come home” in this most tender voice. I don’t let anything I am “doing” be more important than my being. this is huge for me.
I listened to a recording from my guides. When I was done done done with this process as in no more can’t take it they told me the key was trust and surrender. I know see/know that at a whole new visceral level. I have to trust this is taking me where i want to go even though it seems the route passes directly through hell repeatedly. Somehow I am able to trust that, at least now and my god does that make it all so much easier.